Why gratitude is so important when organizing

Letting go of things can be hard. Gifts from a friend, outgrown clothes, sentimentals that remind you of a special time or an inheritance.

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Giving yourself permission to let go is essential to being able to move forward. Especially if the items are linked to negative feelings or guilt. Clients often say, but this was a birthday card, wouldn’t it be unethical to throw it away? No, because the minute you received your card or gift, it has fulfilled its purpose. If your clothes don’t fit you anymore but give you wonderful memories, say thank you and remember all the good things about them. They will be happier where they are actually used. Do you need 15 pictures of the same pose in your picture pile? No, pick one that you really love and let the other ones go. I have many clients that also digitize their loved prints to save space.

Remember the “why”!

Why are you tidying right now? What do you want to do when you are done? What’s the ideal lifestyle you are working toward? It is ok to let go of old ideas and unhealthy relationships to make room for changes and create habits that will help you reach your goal. Keeping a gratitude journal can be very helpful, when you feel stuck. Be grateful for your journey and how far you have come.

What’s one thing you can commit to doing today to make a step toward your goal?

Copyright © 2019 by Janine Morales, Certified KonMari™ Consultant, San Diego, CA

Notes: If you are in need of motivation or guidance in your KonMari™ journey you can find a Certified KonMari™ Consultant on the official KMI webpage https://konmari.com/pages/consultants

Why you shoud consider the Konmari Method for organizing

Sometimes, it feels like we're all running a never-ending race, doesn't it? Between juggling work and family, chasing the latest trends, and trying to keep our social media feeds looking sharp, it's like we're constantly on the move, trying to prove something. But at what cost? It turns out, all this hustle is taking a toll on us—yeah, us millennials are feeling it with higher rates of anxiety and loneliness than ever before.

It makes me think, our obsession with always wanting more is kind of mirroring how we treat the people and things in our life. Like, if your phone breaks, do you fix it or just get the latest model? And how does that reflect on our relationships with friends and family? I remember feeling like a hamster running on a wheel, having to pay credit card debt, and living paycheck to paycheck because I spent money I didn’t have on things I did not need. I felt hopeless and ashamed of not being able to handle my finances in a manner that is expected as an adult. But I did not know better than to buy things to make me feel better when I was sad. I had to dig deeper into why I coped this way and learn how to behave like the successful, independent woman I wanted to become instead.

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This is where Marie Kondo and her KonMari Method™ come into the picture. It's not just about tidying up; it's a whole vibe of figuring out what matters to us. She teaches that tidying is just the means to help us find the lifestyle we truly want. Imagine clearing out the clutter and suddenly, there's this clarity about what's genuinely important. I still have the iPhone X by the way, and it’s 2024! After I came across her book “the life-changing magic of tidying up” which truly changed my life, I don’t feel the constant need to upgrade my lifestyle anymore to impress people I don’t even know and probably don’t even like! The KonMari Method™ focuses on practicing gratitude and being grateful for all the things you already have and love. 

Visualizing that dream life is step one. Then, it's all about making choices that spark joy, not just in our closets but in other aspects of life too. The KonMari Method™ isn't just about organizing your space; it's about transforming your life, focusing on what brings you joy and making decisions easier. 

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So, to all my fellow San Diego military families and anyone longing for a bit of peace in this chaotic world, why not give it a shot? Let's tidy up not just our homes but our lives, creating a space that's all about joy, clarity, and meaningful connections.

Copyright © 2024 by Tidy Closet, Professional Organizer in San Diego and surrounding areas.

Pet organization Tips

If you're a proud pet parent, you already understand the benefits that come with having a furry friend. Not only do pets shower us with unconditional love and companionship, but they also play a pivotal role in enhancing our health by easing stress and decreasing the risk of heart disease. However, with the joy of pets also comes the responsibility of managing their plethora of accessories - from leashes and toys to blankets and medications.

Finding the perfect storage solutions for all your pet items is key to keeping your home organized and your sanity intact. The secret lies in categorization. Start by sorting pet items into distinct categories, such as toys, food, medication, and grooming supplies. Once sorted, assign each category its own bin or box. This method streamlines your storage and saves precious time you'd otherwise spend rummaging for items.

Designate a specific area in your home, such as a drawer dresser or a built-in closet, to house all your pet-related storage containers for an efficient and cohesive setup. This centralizes pet items, making it simpler for you to locate what you need when you need it. When it comes to toys, consider using open bins that keep playthings neatly contained and allow your dog to self-serve their favorites.

Don't overlook the importance of strategically placing leashes, collars, and sanitary bags. One idea is to hang them close to the front door, where you hang your coats. This placement ensures everything is grab-and-go, making your outdoor adventures with your pet as smooth as possible. I personally store all the to-go items in a dresser next to the entrance door, where things are arranged in bins and out of sight.

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